You need to get rid of all of your clients. No, not literally. Emotionally.
What I mean is that you need to detach from the need for your clients to be something they aren’t.
You can’t make your clients appreciate you if they don’t. Let them go. Mentally release them and your need to change them.
You can’t change the complainers, the price shoppers, and the trouble makers into model clients. Let them go.
You can’t change your clients. All you can do is. . . change your clients.
Let go of the wrong ones to make room for the right ones. The clients who value what you do for them, and tell you so. The clients who follow your advice, pay your bill, and re-tweet your brilliance. The clients who come back to you again and again and refer others, again and again.
You know the kinds of clients I’m talking about. The ones you’d like to clone.
Let go of all of your clients to make room for the right clients, the best clients, the clients that make everything you do worth doing.
They are out there and they will find you. But only if you make room.
The economy sucks. What are you doing about it?
Okay, I’m not going to go all save-the-world on you but yes, if you can do something to make things better, you should. Get involved in local politics, volunteer at a charity, help someone in need.
The best thing you can do is to grow your practice. A bigger income would mean you could do more to help others. And you know what they say about the best way to help the poor: don’t become one of them.
I saw this photo on Facebook yesterday and it touched me. In case you can’t see it, it’s the window of a dry cleaner’s with a sign that says, “If you are unemployed and need an outfit clean for an interview, we will clean it for FREE”.
Nice.
Do you think the owner will get some business from this, beyond what he does for free? Publicity? Positive word of mouth? Do you think anyone who takes him up on his offer will continue to patronize his store in the future? Do you think he will tell everyone he knows about the business owner who helped him when he really needed a break?
No question about it. Doing good is good for business.
Could you do something similar for your clients and prospects? For your community?
A discount, a free service, even some non-legal advice. Offer a free financial literacy seminar to help people get a handle on their debts. Get someone a job interview at one of your client’s companies. Offer struggling entrepreneurs two hours of free advice.
Lots of people need help right now. Unemployed, struggling military families, people losing their homes.
What can you do?
Don’t do it solely because it might bring you some business. Do it because it makes you feel good to help a fellow human being.
If we all do that, even a little, everyone will be better off. Including us.