You’re speaking to a prospective client about their case or matter, but they’re not ready to hire you. They tell you they need to think about it. Or say something else that means they’re not ready to say “yes”.
In effect, it’s a “no”.
What should you do?
Many lawyers will correctly say that “no” means “not now”. The client may not be ready to sign up today, because they don’t have the money or don’t want to spend it, their pain or problem isn’t bad enough yet, they have people in their ear telling them they don’t need a lawyer and/or urging them to get more information or competitive quotes, and the list goes on.
But that’s today, and tomorrow it could be a different answer. Assume that “no” means “not now” and let them go, those lawyers will tell you. If, and when they decide they need you, they’ll let you know.
That’s the nature of business. You win some, you lose some, and some are delayed by rain.
Letting them go is your first option. Is it your best choice?
Other lawyers (and advisors) will tell you that “no” means they need more information or more convincing. You didn’t tell them enough or make things plain enough or urgent enough, and your job, as a professional persuader is to persuade. So get to it.
Tell them more about the law, the risks of not taking action or waiting too long, why you are the best lawyer for what they need, and everything else you want them to know, so they can make the “right” decision.
After all, if it’s in their best interests to hire you, you owe them a duty to pull out all the stops and get them to see the light (and other metaphors you could mix).
So, don’t give up that easily. If you told them once, tell them again. More information, more examples, more stories about clients who made the wrong decision, or the right one. Maybe talk to the person who referred them, or a mutual business contact, and see if they can help.
Many attorneys agree with this and will at least try to get the client to reconsider. And the client often does. They decided to hire the attorney, wrote a check, and all was right with the world.
So, those are your first two options. Let them go or do more convincing. But there’s a third option, and it’s the one I recommend.
Your third option is to do for them what you would want them to do if your roles were reversed. If you were the prospective client and not ready to sign up, what would you want the attorney to say or do?
Here’s what I would want:
I’d want the attorney to tell me they understand I’m not ready and won’t push me, thank me for speaking to them, and ask me what I want them to do.
Do I want them to send me more information? Follow-up with me next week or next month? Validate my parking ticket?
I’d want the attorney to make sure I knew my options and let me tell them what I want to do.
That’s what you would want, isn’t it? That’s what your (prospective) clients want, too.
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