We often tell ourselves things that aren’t true. We tell ourselves that we have to do something, right now, or we’ll never get another chance.
We tell ourselves we have to go “all in” or we can’t possibly be successful.
We tell ourselves we shouldn’t take certain risks because there’s too much to lose.
Too often, its just our fears talking.
Recently, I spoke with an attorney who is at a crossroads in his career. He was considering some strategies for growing his practice and wanted my opinion. Which strategy? What’s the best way to go about it? What other things could he do?
A few days later I heard from again. He decided he wasn’t going to do the one big thing he had been considering. In fact, he was thinking about retiring.
He had enough investments and income to do that but he wasn’t sure he was ready to walk away from a career that he identified with for so many years.
And he didn’t know what he would do with his time.
We talked about some of his options. I could see he was feeling pressured to make a decision but was worried about making a mistake.
I told him he didn’t need to decide immediately. I suggested he give a little time to several ideas and see how he felt about them.
He would have figured that out himself, but sometimes it helps to have someone talk you through it.
The next time you have a decision to make and you keep hearing those little nagging voices telling you what you “must” do, ask yourself what you would tell a client who came to you with that decision.
The odds are you’ll give yourself some good advice.
