Networking events often prove to be a waste of time. But that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t network.
Think about it, everyone who is currently in your network was, at one time, a stranger. So, meeting new people can be a very good thing. The question is, who do you want to meet and how can you meet them?
Events can work. But you can also do it without leaving your office and this might work even better.
The first step is to make a list of influential people in your target market. These could be business owners, professionals, or others with influence in that market. It could also include prospective business clients.
Start by identifying “categories”—tax lawyer, real estate broker, business executives at tech companies, for example; once you’ve done that, you can look for “candidates”—actual people or businesses in those categories.
You’re looking for people who can hire you, recommend you, or introduce you to others who can do the same. This might be a lawyer or accountant or other professional who represents your ideal clients, a content creator, consultant, or marketing professional with a following that resembles your ideal clients or the professionals who sell to or advise them.
You’ll have many options to choose from, but you should focus on quality, not quality. 20 or 30 people are a good number. You’re looking for influence (depth) not raw numbers (breadth).
Once you’ve identified some candidates, read their bios, learn what they do, and what they’re good at. Look for clues as to how they might be able to help you and/or your clients and contacts, and how you can help them or their contacts.
As you study them, you may learn you have some mutual contacts, or people who know people who are likely to know them. This could be your path to an introduction.
If not, put together a plan to contact them directly. Decide what you’ll say, what you’ll ask them, or what you might invite them to do.
How you will get their attention? And how will you show them a benefit for speaking with you?
It sounds more difficult than it is. Remember, everyone needs or wants something, even if that something is new professional contacts in their (your) industry or niche.
Contact the people on your list, via a mutual connection or directly, and see who is interested in speaking to you and learning more about how you might help them.
As a lawyer, you clearly have something to offer. If they don’t appreciate that, move on. If they do appreciate that, you might be one or two conversations away from having your next new client.