You’ve given them the information. Answered their questions. Handled their objections. But the prospective client still decides not to hire you. Is there a way to turn their “no” into a “yes”?
You could tell them more. Give them more reasons they need to do what you recommend, tell them more about what could happen if they don’t, or tell them why they should choose you instead of another lawyer or firm.
But that’s argumentative and makes you look weak. At the very least, it’s unlikely to work.
I suggest a different approach.
Thank the prospect for their time in meeting with you and considering you. Tell them you respect their decision. And if you know they’re going to hire one of your competitors, say something positive about them.
Then, tell the client that if they ever need anything, you’ll be happy to help.
That’s it. Don’t try to convince them to change their mind. Don’t remind them of something you’ve said or ask them to think about it.
Smile, shake their hand, and thank them again for speaking with you.
That’s what a professional does. And it’s this attitude that can win you many more “yesses,” including from clients who originally said “no”, aka, “let me think about it”.
When you adopt this approach, prospects who said no will often second-guess their decision. They wonder if they made a mistake by choosing another firm, and that alone might get them to change their mind.
It also makes it more likely they will come back to you when that other firm messes up or otherwise fails to deliver.
And, if the client doesn’t hire you this time, they might be more likely to hire you for the next matter.
Not only that, your confidence and graciousness will likely bring you more referrals as your market hears good things about you. That includes the lawyers at those “other firms” when they have a conflict and are asked to recommend another lawyer.
This is how you turn a no into a yes.
Take the high road and leave the door open. You’ll likely find more clients showing up at that door.